Add Graceful shutdown for Windows and hooks for shutdown of goroutines (#8964)

* Graceful Shutdown for windows and others

Restructures modules/graceful, adding shutdown for windows, removing and
replacing the old minwinsvc code.

Creates a new waitGroup - terminate which allows for goroutines to
finish up after the shutdown of the servers.

Shutdown and terminate hooks are added for goroutines.

* Remove unused functions - these can be added in a different PR

* Add startup timeout functionality

* Document STARTUP_TIMEOUT

modules/ssh/ssh_graceful.go

@@ -1,5 +1,3 @@
-// +build !windows
-
 // Copyright 2019 The Gitea Authors. All rights reserved.
 // Use of this source code is governed by a MIT-style
 // license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
@@ -26,5 +24,5 @@ func listen(server *ssh.Server) {
 
 // Unused informs our cleanup routine that we will not be using a ssh port
 func Unused() {
-	graceful.InformCleanup()
+	graceful.Manager.InformCleanup()
 }

modules/ssh/ssh_windows.go

@@ -1,24 +0,0 @@
-// +build windows
-
-// Copyright 2019 The Gitea Authors. All rights reserved.
-// Use of this source code is governed by a MIT-style
-// license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
-
-package ssh
-
-import (
-	"code.gitea.io/gitea/modules/log"
-	"github.com/gliderlabs/ssh"
-)
-
-func listen(server *ssh.Server) {
-	err := server.ListenAndServe()
-	if err != nil {
-		log.Critical("Failed to serve with builtin SSH server. %s", err)
-	}
-}
-
-// Unused does nothing on windows
-func Unused() {
-	// Do nothing
-}